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  • What Does it Really Mean to Forgive Someone?

    What Does it Really Mean to Forgive Someone?

    Forgiveness isn’t “It’s okay,” rather it’s “I will be okay.”

    Olivia Rohling
    Olivia Rohling

    by Olivia Rohling

    What is forgiveness? Is forgiveness what I’m hoping my high school English teacher will grant me after she discovers I started a piece of writing with a question– despite repeatedly teaching me that starting a piece of writing with a question is lazy. Telling me, “You are a better writer than this!” Is that what I’m hoping she gives me—forgiveness? I believe that in a perfect world– where the sun never stops shining and sparkles fall from the sky and puppies never die, forgiveness is when you somehow become okay with something someone has said or done to you. But by definition, to forgive is “[to] stop feeling angry or resentful toward (someone) for an offense, flaw, or mistake.”

    For most of my life, I’ve held on to the picture-perfect idea that forgiveness means you are okay with the pain someone has caused you. It wasn’t until my senior year of high school when I felt destroyed beyond repair where I found myself searching for what it meant to forgive someone. I thought that’s what you’re supposed to do when someone wrongs you: Eventually, you forgive them and become magically okay with what they said or did. But the last thing I wanted to do was “forgive” someone who led me to have to dunk my face in ice water every night to stop my anxiety attacks. The last thing I wanted to do was “forgive” someone who led me to have to leave in the middle of class with tears staining my red cheeks. I had the wrong idea of what forgiveness is. Forgiveness does not mean you are okay with what someone has done to you. Forgiveness does not mean that what someone has said or done to you is somehow justifiable. The definition says forgiveness is when you stop feeling angry or resentful. It doesn’t say the pain stops. It doesn’t say a certain action is okay. It says you stop feeling angry or resentful. Therefore, forgiveness is a choice. A hard one nonetheless, but it’s a choice for you to make.

    When someone says or does something that hurts you or even destroys you, it means they weren’t thinking of you. When they said the thing or did the act that caused you pain—they were never thinking about you and your heart– your feelings. The great thing about forgiveness is that it comes to be about you, not them. When you forgive, you are showing yourself the care and love that was never thought of in the first place. You are letting go of the hatred and resentment that built up in your chest because you know you deserve more than that. You are worthy of better. By choosing forgiveness, you are choosing yourself—putting yourself first. Hatred and resentment take up too much space in the body and soul, and how silly would it be to let another person control you to such an extent? After they’ve already hurt you as they have?

    You can choose forgiveness and still cry an ugly cry. You can choose forgiveness and still be disapproving of what was said or done. You can choose forgiveness and still hurt. You can choose forgiveness and still never speak to the person again. Forgiveness isn’t approval – instead, it’s the love that was never shown to you finally being shown to you, by you—for you. Forgiveness isn’t “It’s okay,” rather it’s “I will be okay.”

  • Loveland Magazine is looking for April’s Pet of the Month!

    Loveland Magazine is looking for April’s Pet of the Month!

    Self-described “Dog Lover” Mahi Sheth lives in Loveland with her little brother Vraj, and her loving parents. Mahi is a writer for Loveland Magazine.

    by Mahi Sheth

    Loveland, Ohio – Congratulations to Murphy and The Flanagans for being selected to represent Loveland Magazine’s Pet of the Month for March! Murphy and The Flanagans have been rewarded with a Nothing Bundt Cakes Bundtlet Tower, a gift card to The Works Pizza, a gift certificate to Tara’s Pet Boutique and Doggy Daycare, and an 8X10 frameable photo keepsake! Murphy has not only been featured in our publication but has also been included in our weekly newsletter for the month of March and our social media pages.

    We would like to thank everyone who sent in photos of their pets as it was an absolute joy to see how many beautiful animals there are in our community! For those who sent in photos but weren’t selected this time around, don’t worry, as your entries will be entered back into the competition for the following month’s selection! For those that missed the deadline for March’s Pet of the Month, we will be taking entries until April 25th for April’s Pet of the Month. Don’t be afraid to dress up your pets in their best Spring wear!

    To enter into Loveland’s Pet of the Month contest you must email me, Mahi Sheth, at shethmahi6@gmail.com with 2-5 of your favorite photos of your pet along with a short bio about your pet. Share with us and the community why your pet is so special to you along with any other unique facts that set your little buddy apart from other pets! When sending in your pet photos and bios please include your pet’s name, age, and breed as well as your contact info with a short description of each photo you provide us with. If you want to share where your pet’s favorite spots are in Loveland that would be great as well! Remember we DO NOT discriminate against any pets; all pets are welcome to enter into the contest!

    Check out the video below created by David Miller that features Murphy as well as some of our favorite Pet of the Month entries!

     

    We can’t wait to see whose pet will be featured in April for Loveland Magazine’s Pet of the Month Spring Edition!

    Here at Loveland Magazine, we would like to send a personal shout-out to The Works Pizza, Tara’s Pet Boutique and Doggy Daycare, and Nothing Bundt Cakes Mason (nearby in Deerfield Township) for providing wonderful gifts to our winners!

    Want to see previous Pets of the Month? Click here!

  • Ohio HB 616: This type of legislation and mentality must be met head-on and forcefully resisted and debunked

    Ohio HB 616: This type of legislation and mentality must be met head-on and forcefully resisted and debunked

    Aaron West

    by Aaron West

    At the beginning of each school year, I teach my students how to annotate. I want them to pay close attention to what they read, and I encourage them to ask questions about it. Today, I had to practice what I teach. I grabbed a highlighter and every teacher’s friend (a felt-tipped pen) all because of one proposed bill: Ohio HB 616.

    If you aren’t familiar, this bill copies and pastes direct lines from both Florida’s recently-passed ‘Don’t Say Gay’ bill and a litany of other bills passed by certain legislatures attacking Critical Race Theory (which doesn’t exist in K-12 classrooms), “divisive” concepts, and anything that might make anyone feel “guilty.” 

    I have read all 18 pages of this bill and placed here for you two particular ones next to an open copy of my district’s Inclusion guide. I want to show you, firsthand, just how antithetical this is to the field of education. Culturally-responsive education that acknowledges students’ identities is best practice—and we will be at risk of losing our licenses and funding for it should this bill—or any similar form of it—pass. We will be targeted and discharged for doing what is actually right by the professional standards in our field.

    We will be targeted and discharged for doing what is actually right by the professional standards in our field.

    In this bill, you’ll find vague language that isn’t defined; the enabling of any citizen to personally report teachers, administrators, and superintendents for discipline; the threat of punishment for including diversity/equity/inclusion training for staff or students; and consequences for using any curriculum (including my own classroom library) that includes any “divisive” or “racist” (here meaning “non-white”) perspectives or concepts.

    Most personal to me, this bill needlessly includes language whose intention is to further alienate and marginalize LGBTQ+ youth. For the first twenty-six years of my life, I was afraid to admit that I was gay. Had my experience in school (and elsewhere) been different, more representative, that may have been different. I may have been healthier and felt like there was a place for me, my identity—as I was.

    I don’t know if this bill will make it through a committee or whether it will ultimately be passed, but here’s what I do know.

    • 19% of LGBTQ+ youth ages 13-18 reported attempting suicide at least once in 2021 (The Trevor Project)

    • Some form of this bill, and more of the like, will continue to crop up—in Ohio and elsewhere across the U.S.

    • This type of legislation, and really, these mentalities, must be met head-on and forcefully resisted and debunked.

    • We must continue to vote en masse. In every election—locally and otherwise. Vote for people who will not make a culture war of the most vulnerable lived experiences. Vote for your teachers, your medical professionals, your neighbors who are Black or gay or some other “divisive” subset. Inclusion at the elected level is an antidote to the misguided assumption that this is desirable or even acceptable to most.

    • It’s important to remember that one of the noblest goals of quality public education is to make space for all; it is about more seats at the proverbial table. This bill seeks to send a chilling reminder that—still, in 2022—so many must raise their voices as though to ask permission to simply exist or belong.

    If you live in Ohio, you can make your voice heard on this bill by contacting the following:

    House Speaker Robert Cupp (R): (614) 466-9624

    Caucus Minority Leader Allison Russo (D): (614) 466-8012

    Other Ohio House Representatives

    Rep. Jean Schmidt (R-Loveland) Co-introduced HB 616 with Rep. Mike Loychik

    Rep. Mike Loychik (R-Bazetta) Co-introduced HB 616 with Rep. Jean Schmidt

  • Pause on federal student loan repayments extended by Biden through Aug. 31

    Pause on federal student loan repayments extended by Biden through Aug. 31

    BY: ARIANA FIGUEROA – Ohio Capital Journal

    The Biden administration Wednesday announced its plans to extend the pause on federal student loan repayments until the end of August.

    “I recognized in recently extending the COVID-19 national emergency, we are still recovering from the pandemic and the unprecedented economic disruption it caused,” President Joe Biden said in a statement. 

    “If loan payments were to resume on schedule in May, analysis of recent data from the Federal Reserve suggests that millions of student loan borrowers would face significant economic hardship, and delinquencies and defaults could threaten Americans’ financial stability.”

    The White House will extend the deadline for student borrowers to pause on federal loan repayments, interest, and collections until Aug. 31. The announcement also provides a “fresh start” on loan repayments by removing any prior defaults to allow those borrowers to re-enter repayment in good standing.

    The current pause would have ended on May 1.

    “The Department of Education is committed to ensuring that student loan borrowers have a smooth transition back to repayment,” U.S. Secretary of Education Miguel Cardona said in a statement. 

    “This additional extension will allow borrowers to gain more financial security as the economy continues to improve and as the nation continues to recover from the COVID-19 pandemic.”

    Cristina Tzintzún Ramirez, the president of NextGen America, an organization that mobilizes young voters, released a statement calling the announcement “another short-term fix to a crisis that demands a long-term solution.”

    “Young voters feel frustrated with President Biden’s failure to fulfill his promise on student debt cancellation,” Tzintzún Ramirez said. “While borrowers surely appreciate the help paying rent and making ends meet, what they really need is a debt cancellation that will allow them to buy a house and build a future.”

    During Biden’s campaign for the presidency, he pledged to cancel student loan debt during a town hall in Miami.

    “I’m going to eliminate your student debt if you come from a family (making less) than $125,000 and went to a public university,” he said, according to Black Enterprise.

    Biden has since called on Congress to pass legislation to cancel up to $10,000 of student debt, but many congressional Democrats argue that Biden could reduce debt through an executive order. They’ve pushed him to cancel up to $50,000 in student loan debt.

    The Federal Reserve estimates that the total U.S. student loan debt is more than $1.75 trillion. The Department of Education owns about 92% of that student loan debt.

    Democrats push for debt cancellation

    A handful of U.S. Senate and House Democrats released a joint statement that said they welcomed the extension, but stressed the need to cancel student loan debt.

    “While the extension is welcome, a looming restart of student loan payments in September underscores the importance of swift executive action on meaningful student debt cancellation,” they wrote. “We continue to implore the President to use his clear legal authority to cancel student debt, which will help narrow the racial wealth gap, boost our economic recovery, and demonstrate that this government is fighting for the people.”

    Those lawmakers include Sens. Elizabeth Warren of Massachusetts, Chuck Schumer of New York, Alex Padilla of California and Raphael Warnock of Georgia, as well as Reps. Ayanna Pressley of Massachusetts, Ilhan Omar of Minnesota, Pramila Jayapal of Washington, and James E. Clyburn of South Carolina.

    The chair of the House Education and Labor committee, Rep. Bobby Scott, released a statement in which he did not call for the cancellation of student debt, but praised the administration for its decision to continue the pause.

    “By extending the pause on student loan repayments, collections, and interest accrual, the Biden-Harris Administration has demonstrated that it remains committed to helping borrowers get back on their feet,” the Virginia Democrat said.

  • [w/video] Grailville: A place of peace, community, balance, growth, sustenance, “Sharing Born with the wisdom of Women.”

    [w/video] Grailville: A place of peace, community, balance, growth, sustenance, “Sharing Born with the wisdom of Women.”

    by David Miller

    David Miller

    Loveland, Ohio – This is the third video in our series about Grailville and its important cultural past in Loveland. “Grailville Now” was produced by Elizabeth Robinson and Elizabeth Murphy in September of 2009 © and presented here with their permission.

    In 1940, an international movement of women got on a boat. The last boat before Hitler invaded Holland. They made it to America, “by an eyelash” in April of that year.

    The Grail from Loveland became a voice in the United Nations.

    Grailville was the home of the National Grail movement in the United States; the symbolic heart of the movement.

    Will we allow the Grailville farm to be plowed under or will we choose new furrows planted in a way that continues to grow our future as a community?

    More reading…

    In Search of the Grail: The Story of a Women’s Movement…

    Why is Grailville important? A look at the Grail founding in Loveland

    [VIDEO] With public outpouring, has tide turned on Grailville?

    David Miller –  Mar 22, 2022

    Planning and Zoning Commission to hear from public on re-zoning Grailville

    An open letter to City Hall by the Mullins: Grailville decision…

    Drees submits application for 209 homes at Grailville

  • Busy stretch of State Route 28 in Miami Township will benefit from CDBG funding

    Busy stretch of State Route 28 in Miami Township will benefit from CDBG funding

    Miami Township, Ohio – With a Community Development Block Grant and local funding, walkers along a busy stretch of State Route 28 in Miami Township will benefit from a new sidewalk, curbs, driveway aprons, and storm sewer between Orchard Lake Drive and Highview Drive.

    The Clermont Board of County Commissioners on April 6 approved $217,000 in 2021 CDBG funding for the Miami Township Business 28 Corridor Sidewalk Project. This project award was possible due to excess funds from previous projects. Miami Township is matching these dollars with $122, 835, which will increase pedestrian connectivity in the area along the south side of Business 28 which currently has no curb or sidewalks.

    The new sidewalk will increase pedestrian safety in this heavily traveled area which includes a mobile home park with many residents. This work is being coordinated along with Clermont County Water Resources Department, which will replace 3,950 feet of water main that was originally installed over 60 years ago.

    The Clermont County Board of Commissioners receives and awards more than $1 million per year in CDBG funding from the federal Department of Housing and Urban Development to assist low and moderate-income areas and persons. Funding is awarded to local communities and non-profit agencies annually.

    A new sidewalk and curbing is coming to this area. Walkers will benefit from a new sidewalk in this area.

  • Loveland area students can apply now for Ohio Student Safety Advisory Council

    Loveland area students can apply now for Ohio Student Safety Advisory Council

    David Miller is the Editor and Publisher of Loveland Magazine
    by David Miller

    Ohio Governor Mike DeWine today announced the creation of the new Ohio Student Safety Advisory Council within the Ohio School Safety Center (OSSC). The student-led Council will work to identify school safety concerns and develop innovative solutions to address them. “School safety programs are designed to protect students, so it’s important that students are given the opportunity to be a part of the conversation,” said Governor DeWine. “Involving them in the process of identifying safety concerns and creating solutions will provide Ohioans with a new and important perspective for violence prevention.”  Findings from the student-based council meetings will be delivered to the Governor’s Ohio School Safety Working Group to generate statewide solutions and supports.

    “Being a member of this statewide council will enable students to ensure their voice is heard when it comes to school safety,” Ohio Department of Public Safety Director Tom Stickrath said. “They will learn more about student safety-related issues and help devise effective peer-driven solutions.”

    To be eligible for the Council, students must:

    • Be entering grade 11 for the 2022-2023 school year.
    • Submit a completed application and nomination letter, which must be submitted together to OhioSchoolSafetyCenter@dps.ohio.gov prior to the May 6, 2022 deadline to be considered.  
    • Agree to serve a one-year term and attend monthly virtual meetings and one in-person meeting in Columbus.

    Two students from each of the five school safety center regions will be selected for the Council.

    Students will have the opportunity to be involved in additional events both in-person and remotely throughout their term. Those selected should plan on spending no fewer than 10 hours per month on group activities/work. 

    Council members will develop strategies to encourage their peers to actively engage in maintaining a safe school environment and will be an advocate for students’ overall well-being. Students will work directly with the regional school safety liaisons from the OSSC to organize events, focus groups, and trainings in their regions to help highlight student success and safety best practices at various schools. These members will also act as a sounding board for the Governor’s Ohio School Safety Working Group and OSSC on student marketing campaigns and projects to ensure a student voice is represented.  

    Candidates chosen to move forward with the process will be asked to attend a virtual interview. The OSSC plans to announce the student council member selections at the end
    of May. 

    Additional information can be found on the OSSC website.

  • Ohio Secretary of State says he didn’t call for Supreme Court chief’s ouster

    Ohio Secretary of State says he didn’t call for Supreme Court chief’s ouster

    (Photo by Susan Tebben, OCJ.) 

    BY: MARTY SCHLADEN – Ohio Capital Journal

    Ohio Secretary of State Frank LaRose on Tuesday denied that he had called for the impeachment of Ohio Supreme Court Chief Justice Maureen O’Connor after she had repeatedly ruled against LaRose and the rest of her fellow Republicans on the Ohio Redistricting Commission.

    LaRose’s comments come four days  after he told a group of Union County Republicans that Justice O’Connor had “violated her oath of office” and that for the legislature to impeach her  “may be the right thing to do”.

    Audio obtained by the OCJ of Secretary Frank LaRose speaking at a Union County Republicans breakfast last week.

    The state’s top elections official was at the Franklin County Board of Elections on Tuesday as he kicked off early voting for most of this year’s primaries. It won’t include ballots for state legislative candidates because of a dispute over gerrymandering — a fracas over the boundaries of the districts in which members of the state House and Senate will run. 

    Tired, apparently, of partisan gerrymandering, Ohio voters in 2015 overwhelmingly approved a constitutional amendment that requires districts be drawn so that the partisan makeup of the legislature resembles the partisan breakdown in recent statewide elections. 

    That’s not how things stand now. Republicans have won recent elections with about 54% of the vote, but they control 65% of the seats in the state House and 78% of the state Senate.

    This year, using the new system for the first time, the five Republicans on the seven-member redistricting commission have passed four sets of maps that O’Connor and the three Democrats on the Supreme Court have ruled are too partisan.

    Republican Justice Pat DeWine has continued to sit in the case even though several ethics experts have said he has a clear conflict because his father, Gov. Mike DeWine, is a member of the redistricting commission. Justice DeWine has voted in favor of upholding the maps that his father and the other Republicans have passed.

    Meanwhile, Republican frustration with O’Connor, who will leave the court at the end of the year, has been boiling over. Some Republican members of the legislature last month floated the idea of impeachment.

    Gov. DeWine called the notion “extraordinary” and said it’s a bad idea to talk about removing judges whenever one disagrees with their decisions. But LaRose, the secretary of state, wasn’t so reticent on Friday when asked at a Union County Republican breakfast if O’Connor should be impeached.

    “I think that she has not upheld her oath of office, and that to me is a basic test of a public servant,” he said. “That’s up to the state legislature, whether they want to impeach the chief justice or not. I certainly wouldn’t oppose it.”

    LaRose stipulated that any impeachment would take so long that “it may feel really good, and it may be the right thing to do because she’s violated her oath of office by making up what she wants the law to say instead of interpreting what it actually says. But I don’t know if it would accomplish much, but I’d be fine with it if they did.”

    At Tuesday’s event, LaRose tried to draw a distinction between saying impeachment may be the right thing to do and actually calling for it.  

    “The thing that I did was not call for anybody to be impeached,” he said. “I answered a question that was asked at a little breakfast gathering where I was with a group of supporters in Union County and what I said was, ‘It’s up to the state legislature.’ There are 33 senators and 99 representatives. If they gather evidence and hold that trial for an impeachment, if they decide as the people’s representatives to do that, then I don’t oppose that.”

    LaRose and some legislative Republicans are not alone in being frustrated by the redistricting battle. For the second time, the Supreme Court has ordered members of the commission to show why they shouldn’t be held in contempt for failing to pass maps that comply with the court’s interpretation of the state Constitution. Responses were submitted on Monday.

    Some members have argued that they shouldn’t be held individually liable for the actions of a seven-member body they don’t control. And some have argued for the court to simply impose maps on the commission would overstep its powers as a judicial body.

    LaRose on Tuesday said holding contempt proceedings is another overreach.

    “It’s a ridiculous idea that a co-equal branch of government would be held in contempt for doing our job in a way that the court doesn’t like,” he said. “What we have attempted to do all throughout this process is follow the rules that are set out in the Constitution — and not just the one part of the Constitution that the court seems to be focusing on, but all of the line-drawing rules in the Ohio Constitution.”

    LaRose was asked if he was attacking a co-equal body by publicly saying that he, a statewide official, was OK with the impeachment of a Supreme Court justice who had ruled against him.

    “Certainly not,” he said. “The Constitution lays out the process for impeaching and removing a justice from the Ohio Supreme Court or other elected officials. That’s not a power I have. I can express my opinion as a citizen just like any of us can and what I was telling this group of supporters in Union County a couple days ago is that if the state legislature found evidence and carried out that process, then I wouldn’t stand in the way of that.

    “And I certainly have concerns that the court has delved into really the politics of this more than they should have. But that’s a choice up to the General Assembly and certainly not a choice I get to make. I was simply expressing my opinion,” he said.

    Democratic Secretary of State candidate Chelsea Clark said LaRose’s comments about O’Connor make him unfit for his office.

    “It’s now obvious to anyone that Frank LaRose can’t be trusted to administer organized elections and now when he’s called out for the chaos, he wants to blame the referees,” she said in an email. “To claim ‘it would feel good’ to impeach the chief justice because he disagrees with the court’s rendering is pathetic. For someone who claims to believe in separation of powers, Secretary LaRose has no problem trying to overturn the will of the people.”

    LaRose on Tuesday said primary elections for legislative seats most likely will take place in August.

  • Loveland Police Chief Dennis Sean Rahe is “2-7 Out of service for the final time”

    Loveland Police Chief Dennis Sean Rahe is “2-7 Out of service for the final time”

    Photo of Dennis Sean Rahe from Loveland Police FaceBook Page
    David Miller

    by David Miller

    Loveland, Ohio – Police Chief Dennis Sean Rahe started as a police officer in Loveland in 1998. He was active on the bike patrol team and as a field training officer. He was promoted to the rank of Sergeant in 2007, Assistant Chief in 2010, and Chief of Police in 2016. He served as Chief of Police until his retirement on Friday, April 1st.

    The City lists these projects under his leadership:

    • Transitioning all LPD officers to full-time and growing staffing from 16 officers to 20.
    • Serving as the project manager for the $1.3 million renovation to the Loveland Safety Center.
    • Partnering with neighboring agencies on a Junior Police Academy and Citizens Police Academy.
    • Adding two additional School Resource Officers.
    • Expanding LPD hiring processes to include the National Testing Network, as well as personality and emotional intelligence testing.
    • Adopting the International Association of Property and Evidence standards.
    • Achieving Ohio Community Policing Collaborative Certification.
    • Conducting numerous threat assessments for Loveland sites and facilities.   

    During his term as Loveland Chief of Police, Rahe served as the Ohio Association of Chiefs of Police (OACP) Chair of the Publications Committee, Treasurer and Secretary of the Clermont County Chiefs of Police and Sheriffs Association, Chair of the Child Abduction Response Team Committee for the Hamilton County Chiefs of Police, Liaison for the Ohio Crime Prevention Association Professional Organization, and the Law Enforcement Liaison for the ASIS International Cincinnati Chapter. 

    (Videos from Loveland Police FaceBook Page.)

    Rahe graduated from Archbishop Moeller High School in 1991. In 1994, he earned a Bachelor of Science in Criminal Justice from the University of Cincinnati. He is a graduate of the Federal Bureau of Investigations National Police Academy, the OACP Certified Law Enforcement Executive Program, is a certified Project Manager through Xavier University, and is a board-certified Physical Security Professional through ASIS International.  

    City Manager Dave Kennedy told Loveland Magazine, “We have appointed Sue Madsen as our Safety Director. Sue was formerly the Chief of Miami Township before retiring a few years ago. Sue is extremely well respected, and the city is very fortunate to have her step in to help us out until a new Police Chief is appointed.”

  • Clermont County seeking your guidance about solar and wind farms

    Clermont County seeking your guidance about solar and wind farms

    Clermont County, Ohio – In their Community and Economic Development Newsletter the County Planning Division says, “Green energy companies are increasingly interested in building solar and wind farms on flat farmland.”

    The Clermont County Planning Division and County Prosecutor’s office will host a meeting to get your feedback regarding this possibility.

    Your thoughts will help them provide guidance to the Board of County Commissioners about appropriate areas for this type of development.

    You can join Planner Taylor Corbett and Assistant Prosecutor Julia Carney on April 29, from 9 until 11 AM to share your views.

    The meeting will be in the Clermont County Engineer’s Community Room at 2381 Clermont Center Drive in Batavia.


    RSVP by April 22, 2022 to Gael Fawley at jgfawley@clarmontcountyohio.gov